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Is my lovebird female or male? | Sexing Agapornis

Have you added a lovebird to your family and don’t know its sex? Or do you have a lovebird that came to you as a male or female, but you’re starting to suspect otherwise? You’re not alone! Figuring out whether your lovebird is male or female is much more challenging than in some other parrots.

Keep reading for everything you need to know about how to find out whether your lovebird is male or female. We’ll start off by discussing some less accurate methods first and then I’ll go into the option I personally recommend.

Lovebird female or male | Visual indicators

If an animal species shows visual differences between males and females, this is called sexual dimorphism. The bad news for lovebird enthusiasts: the popular pet species are monomorphic, meaning there are no visual differences between the boys and the girls. Males and females of the common peach-faced lovebird (Agapornis roseicollis), Fischer’s lovebird (Agapornis fischeri) and yellow-collared lovebird (Agapornis personatus) are all identical-looking.

According to some lovebird enthusiasts, you can tentatively sex your pet lovebird based on some small visual indicators. The females are supposed to be smaller (or larger, according to some sources…), but more rounded in the head and shoulders. They are said to have larger rings around the eyes and sport a bigger beak as well.

While this may be true in some specimens, it isn’t a guarantee by any means. I personally wouldn’t even bother with visual sexing, as even long-time breeders get it wrong all the time.

The lovebird species that are sexually dimorphic are the following three (out of nine), which are uncommon in the pet trade. You’re highly unlikely to come across one.

  • Red-headed lovebird (Agapornis pullarius): The female’s head and beak are a paler red than the male’s.
  • Black-winged lovebird (Agapornis taranta): The male has a bright red forehead.
  • Grey-headed lovebird (Agapornis canus): Only the male sports the typical grey chest and head.

Did you know? In limited cases, with selectively bred mutations, you can identify the sex of lovebird chicks by their father’s coloration. This post explains some of it, but brace yourself, it’s complicated if you’re not familiar with lovebird color genetics.

Pelvic exam

Another method often used to attempt to sex lovebirds is through a pelvic exam. If you have multiple Agapornis, you can hold each of them gently upside down in your hand and feel the pelvic region with your finger to compare. In females, the pelvic bones should be further apart than in males in order to allow eggs to pass.

This method of sexing may have slightly higher reliability than just going by the birds’ looks, but it’s often not that much better than a blind guess. This especially applies if you don’t have much experience. There are differences between individuals and you can easily misjudge things. You can even hurt your bird if you do it wrong.

Lovebird (Agapornis), a popular pet parrot, sleeping on wood perch. | Is my lovebird female or male?

Lovebird female or male | Behavioral indicators

Some lovebird enthusiasts swear you can easily sex an Agapornis based on its behavior. In reality, it’s not the most reliable way to go about things by any means. Still, I’ll discuss a few indicators here for those that don’t want or can’t afford a DNA test for their bird (see the next paragraph) right now.

Indicators of a male

  • Tend to be a little friendlier to other lovebirds and possibly to humans
  • More likely to regurgitate for a mate

Indicators of a female

  • Often more territorial
  • Show sexual interest by bending down with wings spread in “airplane mode”.
  • More likely to stick paper strips in feathers.

Things that don’t indicate sex

There are some things that are noted by certain sources to indicate lovebird sex, but don’t actually tell you that much. These include:

  • Shredding paper for nests is something both males and females do. The females are said to be more likely to tuck them into their feathers, however.
  • Both males and females make nests.
  • Bonded lovebird pairs can be male/male or female/female.
  • All lovebirds may show masturbating behaviors with toys or perches.
Fischer's lovebird parrot (Agapornis fischeri) pair.

DNA testing a lovebird

For a long time, it wasn’t possible to offer commercial DNA tests for pet birds. The amount of blood needed for these tests was too large and it was just too complicated. That has changed, which is great news for owners of monomorphic parrots like Agapornis.

You can now find at-home DNA testing kits with very high accuracy (usually 99.9% or more) in many online stores and even some pet stores. These only need a freshly plucked feather, a toenail or some fresh eggshell to determine by means of a PCR test whether your lovebird is a boy or a girl. You’ll get the results emailed back to you.

DNA testing is the absolute most accurate method to determine lovebird sex. It’s the only way you can be almost 100% sure. And it’s not expensive either, so get testing! The tests I come across most often are by PollyGene.

Did you know? There is also a method referred to as endoscoping sexing, which involves surgery to look at the parrot’s gonads (testes or ovaries). Obviously this is very invasive and has to be done under anesthesia. That’s why it has largely made way for DNA testing.

Does sex matter?

To a certain degree, it does. This is mainly because hens are always at risk of egg-binding. Knowing your lovebird is female can help you be vigilant for indications of this potentially fatal problem. Being aware of your bird’s sex can also help you understand hormonal behavior and aid in preventing it.

And by the way: don’t always believe the breeder. I’ve heard of endless instances where a lovebird or other parrot was supposedly of one sex and then turned out to be the other. Imagine the surprise when you always believed your bird was a male and one day it lays an egg! DNA testing is just the most reliable way to figure it out.


If you have any more questions about figuring out whether your lovebird is male or female or if you want to share your own experiences with sexing Agapornis, don’t hesitate to leave a comment below!

TURCU, M. C., BEL, L. V., COLLARILE, T., & PUSTA, D. L. (2020). Comparative Evaluation Of Two Techniques Of Sex Determination In Lovebirds (Agapornis Spp.). Bulletin of the University of Agricultural Sciences & Veterinary Medicine Cluj-Napoca. Horticulture77(2).

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